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Wednesday, November 07, 2007

What has this country come to???

This is pathetic. There are just no words right now.


Girl, 13, gets detention for hugging two friends
Illinois middle school bans public displays of affection; parents urge change

Tim Vizer / ASSOCIATED PRESS

MASCOUTAH, Ill. - Two hugs equals two days of detention for 13-year-old Megan Coulter.
The eighth-grader was punished for violating a school policy banning public displays of affection when she hugged two friends Friday.

“I feel it is crazy,” said Megan, who was to serve her second detention Tuesday after classes at Mascoutah Middle School.

“I was just giving them a hug goodbye for the weekend,” she said.

Megan’s mother, Melissa Coulter, said the embraces weren’t even real hugs — just an arm around the shoulder and slight squeeze.

“It’s hilarious to the point of ridicule,” Coulter said. “I’m still dumbfounded that she’s having to do this.”

District Superintendent Sam McGowen said that he thinks the penalty is fair and that administrators in the school east of St. Louis were following policy in the student handbook.
It states: “Displays of affection should not occur on the school campus at any time. It is in poor taste, reflects poor judgment, and brings discredit to the school and to the persons involved.”
Parents urge change in policyCoulter said she and her husband told their daughter to go ahead and serve her detentions because the only other option was a day of suspension for each skipped detention.

“We don’t agree with it, but I certainly don’t want her to get in more trouble,” Coulter said.

The couple plan to attend the next school board meeting to ask board members to consider rewording the policy or be more specific in what is considered a display of affection.

“I’m just hoping the school board will open their eyes and just realize that maybe they shouldn’t be punishing us for hugs,” Megan said.

4 Comments:

Blogger The Wonder Worrier said...

Wow...

Just...

I have no words. What idiot wrote that dumbass rule? LOL.

November 07, 2007 2:24 PM  
Blogger MYSTIC said...

12 HUGS a day are required here for mental health reasons. Make sure your kids give you that many every day...I won't tell the teacher.

November 08, 2007 6:08 PM  
Blogger Unknown said...

Ever once in a while I encounter the stupidity of the anti-hugging lobby. It tugs at my heart and has since the first time I encountered this absurdity: a social worker friend of mine was dismissed from his job at a state hospital for encouraging the mentally retarded patients in his therapy group to hug one another. That was over 30 years ago and I still hurt for those folks who go through life without being allowed to give or receive hugs.

November 09, 2007 6:50 PM  
Blogger MYSTIC said...

REMEMBER...We put the idiots in office who write the rules..
What ever happened to the Voice of the People...and common sense?

November 10, 2007 3:49 AM  

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